Posts Tagged ‘female’




If you happen to be a mother you are a special person. Giving birth is an  awesome  experience you will never forget. Most fathers don’t forget either. Some faint! But once the bundle of joy arrives, most of the time, everyone is happy.

Mothers nurse the babies; burp the babies,  change the babies, talk to the babies and then sing lullabies to the babies all day long. If she works, there is a need for a Nanny or Nursery School  We sometimes call them Day Care Facilities. Some women use grandmother or other relatives. I am just saying your new addition will initiate change in your family dynamics.

Motherhood is great!  However, like some popular beliefs, it requires no special talent. That is wrong!  Any female can get pregnant, but not just any female can be a mother.  A real mother loves when you are unloveable. She finds the good in you when no one else does. A real mother loves her child and will do what is best for the child regardless.

If you still have your mother, treat her well. Make or buy her a special gift. Don’t let Hallmark be the only one who speaks for you. Tell her something special and meaningful. Your birth mother should not be the only woman in your life. To name a few other women; your wife, your female siblings, your brothers’ wives,  your older or younger church members who are mothers, older or younger women who are mothers in your neighborhood and older or younger mothers on your job.

Remember, God gave women a gift only women can do. I know science is experimenting with babies in a test tube without an egg or a sperm. Thank God they have not succeeded yet.

HAPPY MOTHERS’S DAY to all MOTHERS! Especially to mothers who adopted children. You did not have to do it.

An Incomplete Puzzle

An Incomplete Puzzle
I have felt like I was living in an incomplete puzzle.
I awoke this morning to a complete puzzle. Ever since 2006 when my husband and son passed away in an automobile accident, I have felt as if I was in an incomplete puzzle. When I came home from the hospital, I knew I would have to learn to live without them. I knew it would be difficult but then I didn’t imagine how difficult it would be. After all I had lost my friend, my accountant, my business manager, my lover and my home repairman. In addition I lost my mother and my son as well.
Whoopi Goldberg, on the View said it smartly; the three worst words spoken in the English language: “You complete me” Those three little words have made a liar of so many people. No one completes you but you.
I have my Pastor to thank. Every year we have Pray and fasting in the month of January. In the month of August my church celebrates Prayer and Feasting. At our time for Prayer and Fasting we celebrate the Daniel Fast. In August we celebrate going without something we truly love other than food. On Both occasions, we ask God for what is in our heart to ask for and thank Him for gifts already received. I will not share what I asked for because God has not answered my prayer yet. I will admit I asked God for something I cannot get from neither man nor woman. God has no respect of person neither do I.  He does not favor Gentiles over Jews nor males  over females. My answer will come because it is biblical. Anything biblical asked in the father’s name shall come to pass. Don’t ask for something that belongs to someone else. God is neither heard of hearing nor dumb. God completes me. This morning I awoke to a new day. All is well. I am complete. I cannot tell you when or how it happens.  I only know I just felt complete.